Swingers in Highland Lakes, New Jersey
SwingersPlayLive lists 189 members within 25 miles of Highland Lakes, NJ — 59 couples, 8 single women and 122 single men. None list Highland Lakes itself as home; the biggest communities nearby are Paterson (22), Monsey (19) and Middletown (18). 185 of them are shown publicly; the rest are visible to members after a free sign-up with a confirmed e-mail address. There is 1 nudist or clothing-optional place within 25 miles. Updated .
See also Middletown, the nearest bigger community with its own page.
- Members within 25 miles
- 189
- Couples
- 59
- 8 single women · 122 single men
- Swinger clubs
- 0
- within 25 miles
- Nudist places
- 1
- within 25 miles
- Members within 25 miles
- 189
- Couples
- 59
- 8 single women · 122 single men
- Nudist places
- 1
- within 25 miles
Swingers near Highland Lakes, NJ
Usernames and public profile texts, never photos. People who live in Highland Lakes come first, then by distance. Log in free to see full profiles.Usernames and member facts, never photos. People who live in Highland Lakes come first, then by distance.
- Mike_284Couple (M/F) · 40 & 42Vernon Center · ~2 mi · Last active 2025Easy going
- MrandmrsnjnycCouple (M/F) · 54 & 46Hamburg · ~6 mi · Active this yearFull swap, married couple always looking for new friends. Love small groups and intimate get togethers.
- Ggcck34Man · 26Franklin · ~7 mi · Last active 2024
- Want_20Man · 51Sussex · ~8 mi · Last active 2023
- Couple_0405Couple (M/F) · 42 & 35Sussex · ~8 mi · Last active 2023Established married couple. Avid travelers, enjoy reading, photography, camping, leisure flying, anything on the water and making real connections with all…
- Nick_20Man · 54Sussex · ~8 mi · Last active 2020
- Froz4uMan · 53Sussex · ~8 mi · Inactive recentlyReal discreet here
- TrickyMan · 54Sussex · ~8 mi · Inactive recentlyOpen minded
- Man_72796Man · 56Warwick · ~8 mi · Active this year
- Man_5242Man · 38Warwick · ~8 mi · Last active 2024Love to laugh
- Sunshine32Man · 44Warwick · ~8 mi · Last active 2023
- Apollo_05Man · 48Warwick · ~8 mi · Last active 2023
- Just_FunCouple (M/F) · 49 & 46Warwick · ~8 mi · Last active 2023Fun-loving people to try new things and explorer what the lifestyle has to offer
- Lovingcouple_84Couple (M/F) · 41 & 38Warwick · ~8 mi · Last active 2021
- BolbousMan · 51Hewitt · ~9 mi · Active this year
- Couple_9527Couple (M/F) · 39 & 35Oak Ridge · ~9 mi · Last active 2023
- Rico_18Man · 48Oak Ridge · ~9 mi · Last active 2021
- Muluke_64Man · 71Ogdensburg · ~9 mi · Active this yearI’m a very nice but lonely man. 6’1 tall 220 pounds black hair
- Man_16978Man · 34Kinnelon · ~15 mi · Active this year
- Finn_79Man · 54Kinnelon · ~15 mi · Last active 2022Sexy
- DevigMan · 36Wanaque · ~15 mi · Last active 2025I am looking for a woman or a couple.
- Philly_53Man · 60Lake Mohawk · ~15 mi · Last active 2025Happy go lucky and fun
- Alex_583Couple (M/F) · 60 & 47Lake Mohawk · ~15 mi · Inactive recentlyStroudsburg
- John_848Man · 62Chester · ~15 mi · Last active 2024
- Chris_456Man · 31Newton · ~15 mi · Active this year
- Couple_92497Couple (M/F) · 30 & 29Ramapo College of New Jersey · ~15 mi · Active this yearWe are looking to get to know another couple. please no single men
- Yoyo_45Couple (M/F) · 36 & 35Ramapo College of New Jersey · ~15 mi · Last active 2024
- SpacejunkyMan · 37Goshen · ~15 mi · Last active 2024…
- Man_9016Man · 36Goshen · ~15 mi · Last active 2024
- Man_0881Man · 45Goshen · ~15 mi · Last active 2023Just ask
- Dee_42Couple (M/F) · 33 & 35Goshen · ~15 mi · Last active 2023Looking to try new things as a couple
- MandaCouple (M/F) · 39 & 40Goshen · ~15 mi · Last active 2021
- Bigman_54Man · 31Goshen · ~15 mi · Last active 2021Looking to meet new fun couples
- Couple_1761Couple (M/F) · 52 & 50Goshen · ~15 mi · Last active 2021Sexy easy going couple looking for hot couples and single ladies for some fun in and out of the bedroom
- LlmWoman · 36Goshen · ~15 mi · Inactive recently
- Man_55617Man · 25Suffern · ~15 mi · Active this year
185 of them are shown publicly; the rest are visible to members after a free sign-up with a confirmed e-mail address.
See all 189 members — free sign-upSwinger clubs near Highland Lakes, NJ
We don't list a swinger club with a current source within 25 miles of Highland Lakes. The nearest current one we know of is Checkmate in New York City (~45 mi). Own a club? List it.
Older listings, not yet verified (they may have closed): The Couples Network (~15 mi), Deviate Network (~20 mi)
Nudist beaches & naturist places near Highland Lakes, NJ
- ~8 mi
Naturist campsite · Oak Ridge
Bigger scenes near Highland Lakes
Communities with a page of their own within about 95 miles, by the number of members who live there.
- New York City, NY954 members · ~40 mi
- Manhattan, NY594 members · ~40 mi
- Philadelphia, PA163 members · ~90 mi
- The Bronx, NY121 members · ~40 mi
- Brooklyn, NY120 members · ~45 mi
- Queens, NY75 members · ~50 mi
- Newark59 members · ~35 mi
- Scranton, PA47 members · ~65 mi
Communities near Highland Lakes
With the number of members who live in each.
- Vernon Center1 member · ~2 mi
- Vernon Valley~4 mi
- Upper Greenwood Lake~5 mi
- Hamburg1 member · ~6 mi
- Franklin1 member · ~7 mi
- Sussex5 members · ~8 mi
- Warwick, NY6 members · ~8 mi
- Hewitt1 member · ~9 mi
- Oak Ridge2 members · ~9 mi
- Newfoundland~9 mi
- Ogdensburg1 member · ~9 mi
- Macopin~10 mi
About the Highland Lakes scene
- The biggest scene within 25 miles is Paterson, where 22 members live (~25 mi away).
- Couples make up 31% of members near Highland Lakes, less than the 35% across the United States.
- The nearest lifestyle destination in our guide is Gunnison Beach, Sandy Hook, about 55 mi away.
- Visiting Highland Lakes? With Travel Mode, members around Highland Lakes, NJ can see your trip dates before you arrive.
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Swingers in Highland Lakes: questions & answers
How many swingers are there in Highland Lakes, NJ?
SwingersPlayLive lists 189 members within 25 miles of Highland Lakes, NJ: 59 couples, 8 single women and 122 single men. None list Highland Lakes itself as home yet. Figures as of October 3, 2026.
Are there swinger clubs in or near Highland Lakes, NJ?
We don't list a swinger club with a current source within 25 miles of Highland Lakes, NJ. Older listings nearby could not be verified and may have closed. The nearest current one we know of is Checkmate in New York City, ~45 mi away.
Where is the nearest nudist beach or naturist place to Highland Lakes, NJ?
The closest nudist or clothing-optional place we list is Rock Lodge Club (naturist campsite, Oak Ridge), ~8 mi away. Rules differ from place to place, so follow local signs and only undress in designated or customary nude areas.
Is it free to search for swingers in Highland Lakes, NJ?
Yes. 185 of the 189 members near Highland Lakes, NJ are shown without an account, and all 189 after a free sign-up with a confirmed e-mail address. A free account lets you read full profiles and reply to messages; starting conversations and other extras need a paid plan.Yes. 185 of the 189 members near Highland Lakes, NJ are shown without an account, and all 189 after a free sign-up with a confirmed e-mail address. A free account lets you read full profiles and reply to messages.
Which communities near Highland Lakes, NJ have the most members?
Within 25 miles of Highland Lakes, NJ, the biggest are Paterson (22 members, ~25 mi), Monsey (19 members, ~20 mi) and Middletown (18 members, ~20 mi).