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Swinger clubs & lifestyle venues
SwingersPlayLive lists 462 swinger clubs, party organisers and lifestyle resorts with a current source in 33 countries. 429 are confirmed on OpenStreetMap or by the venue itself; verified listings show their source and when they were last checked. We also keep 953 older SwingersPlay network listings (last seen 2017–2019) that we have not been able to verify; they are shown separately on the country pages. We never invent venues, reviews or ratings.
Last updated
- Venues listed
- 462
- with a current source
- Countries
- 33
- Verified
- 429
- OpenStreetMap or owner
- Party organisers
- 0
- off-premise events
Swinger clubs by country
Number of clubs, parties and lifestyle resorts with a current source per country.
- Germany156
- France77
- United States37
- Austria21
- Italy18
- Netherlands18
- Belgium17
- United Kingdom15
- Switzerland15
- Poland15
- Brazil12
- Canada11
- Denmark9
- Spain8
- Japan6
- Australia3
- Colombia3
- Mexico2
- Russia2
- Hungary2
- Greece2
- Sweden2
- Portugal1
- Romania1
- Costa Rica1
- Argentina1
- Czechia1
- Chile1
- Peru1
- Croatia1
- Lithuania1
- Slovenia1
- Jamaica1
Only older, unverified listings so far: South Africa, Dominican Republic, Ireland, Venezuela, New Zealand, Thailand, Cyprus, Estonia, Finland, Georgia, Norway, Panama.
Cities with the most clubs
- Vienna, Austria13 venues
- Lyon, France12 venues
- Hamburg, Germany10 venues
- Berlin, Germany8 venues
- Frankfurt am Main, Germany8 venues
- Karlsruhe, Germany7 venues
- Nuremberg, Germany7 venues
- Paris, France6 venues
- Amsterdam, Netherlands5 venues
- Bern, Switzerland5 venues
- Bremen, Germany5 venues
- Copenhagen, Denmark5 venues
On-premise vs off-premise clubs
Lifestyle venues fall into two broad groups, and knowing which one you are walking into sets expectations for everyone.
- On-premise clubs have private areas where consenting adult guests may be intimate on site, where the law allows it. They usually work as private membership venues with house rules, couples nights and staff who enforce consent.
- Off-premise clubs and parties are social events — a bar night, a dance party, a meet-and-greet — where nothing sexual happens on site. People get to know each other and, if they click, arrange to meet privately later. They are the gentlest first step for newcomers.
- Lifestyle resorts and takeovers are hotels, resorts or cruises that are adults-only for a week or a season. See our lifestyle destinations.
Our listings label each venue's type. If a label is wrong, use “Claim or update this listing” on the club page and we will correct it.
How to choose a club safely
- Check that it is real and current. Look for an up-to-date website or event calendar and our “last verified” line. Venues close and change owners often.
- Read the house rules before you go. Good clubs publish them: consent (“no means no”, ask before touching), dress code, the policy for single guests, and a strict no-phones, no-photos rule.
- Look for visible consent culture. Hosts who explain the rules to first-timers and staff who act when someone ignores a “no” are the best sign of a well-run venue.
- Expect ID checks. A serious venue admits adults only and checks ID at the door.
- Hygiene and safer sex. Clean facilities, fresh towels, lockers and freely available condoms matter. Read our safety and sexual-health guide.
- Walk away from commercial sex. Swinging is between consenting guests. A venue where anyone is paid for sex is something else, and is illegal in many places. We do not list such venues — report one if you find it here.
- Agree a plan with your partner. Boundaries, a signal to leave, and how you get home. You can always just watch, dance and talk.